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About Larry Bilotta:
Larry Bilotta has been teaching couples how to restore their loveless marriages since 1995. Back in the 90′s, Larry was suffering MISERABLY in a loveless marriage.
He needed a way to reduce the stress, anxiety and tension in his marriage. Not because he was devoted to his wife, but because he needed to maintain his own SANITY. Larry’s wife didn’t believe in divorce…but at the same time, she told him he could leave her…in a body bag!
Needless to say, Larry set out on a mission to find a REAL solution to their ongoing struggles. And after 27 years of misery – he finally found it. Today, Larry and his wife have been happily married for 34 years…and they’re closer than ever.
Larry is one of the few marriage experts who actually transformed his OWN marriage and today, holds the key to bringing back a marriage from the brink of divorce – even AFTER the papers have been filed.
At the core of Larry’s teachings is his “secret method” that allows individuals to transform themselves from the inside out, and positively influence their spouse as a result. By learning to eliminate their negative feelings in just 60 seconds, Larry has taught individual spouses how to completely change the environment of the marriage through his Environment Changer program for the past 15 years.
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hi LARRY, My wife has left says she wants to be free and says she is done and she is cold and close minded so we are at step 7 in your chart , we have been together 24 years, her dad cheated on her mom and left her ,but i don’t think my wife is doing that yet ,i really think she still loves me but is trying to make herself not too , is there any hope for us since shes at the snap line?
Hi Cliff,
After 24 years of marriage, you might be one of those men who became very comfortable and thought that your wife would always be there and that you could dedicate your time and energy to your other pursuits because “she would always be there”. I think I hear this story five times every week. You will see me talk about this in the video where I explained the concept of S.P.I.T., the acronym that stands for spouses prematurely ignored and taken for granted.
It’s also a well-established fact that husbands do not wake up to their wives needs until their wives tell them some shocking idea such as “I don’t love you anymore”. If you have seen many of my videos, you will see that I do not want to talk about what is going on today. All I’m interested in is how your father treated your mother in your first 10 years of childhood. That is how you treated your wife and according to this, your marriage was able to survive 24 years but no more.
Your next question Cliff, is, not “Do I want to save my marriage?”, because that marriage is probably over now. Your question is “Do I want to save this woman?”. If you do want to save this woman, then you will have to start all over again. In order to start over again, winning her back will not be easy unless you have the skills. By skills I mean in addition to great focus and commitment, you will need to be able to stay calm, secure, and safe. You will not have the luxury of being anxious, or needy or urgent about getting her back. All those feelings will drive her further and faster away from you. What I’m saying is that you will have to learn to control your emotions.
The spouses in my environment changer course are here to learn this very thing. When people write to me, they always do it very late, way near the last step in the eight steps to divorce.
Thanks for writing Cliff,
Larry