I know firsthand what it’s like to be in a painful marriage because back in the 90’s I was trapped in a marriage made in hell. Like you, I also wanted to know what to do first, second, third. I wanted exact steps and I wanted relief. I was desperately searching for some way to overcome the tremendous amount of pressure, stress and tension I endured day in and day out.

But unlike you I wasn’t looking for a way to save my marriage – I was too selfish for that. What I needed was to save my own SANITY because my wife didn’t believe in divorce.