http://youcansavethismarriage.com/blog Free Marriage Advice on How To Fix Your Marriage Thu, 17 May 2012 06:44:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://youcansavethismarriage.com/blog/the-3-biggest-marriage-myths/comment-page-1/#comment-170 Mike the Nurse Sun, 03 Jul 2011 10:21:29 +0000 http://youcansavethismarriage.com/blog/?page_id=151#comment-170 Your Comments, Found out my wife was cheating on me with a customer at our bar, one of the most pathetic losers imaginable. She stated it started with him giving her poems. Best thing is this was found out the day after she left for Belarus for 5 weeks. I totally blew up the first day and found out she screwed this loser 4 times over 5 months. We talked divorce, separation and selling our home... After reading your posts I realized that I had somehow left something out of our marriage that made her look elsewhere. I called her with a different attitude and we believe we can make another go of it. She is aware of my feelings for her and I am opening up more to her and she to me. Now looking into sex games/toys and we have had a few skype calls that were pretty heated. I am wondering if I should make her swear on our boys health that it will never happen again so I can begin my healing or just let it go. She has gone from "hopefully it won't happen again", to "It will never, never happen again. Just wanted to give you a big THANKS VERY MUCH, for bringing an option besides divorce to me. You may have saved my marriage. Mike the Nurse Your Comments,
Found out my wife was cheating on me with a customer at our bar, one of the most pathetic losers imaginable. She stated it started with him giving her poems. Best thing is this was found out the day after she left for Belarus for 5 weeks. I totally blew up the first day and found out she screwed this loser 4 times over 5 months. We talked divorce, separation and selling our home… After reading your posts I realized that I had somehow left something out of our marriage that made her look elsewhere. I called her with a different attitude and we believe we can make another go of it. She is aware of my feelings for her and I am opening up more to her and she to me. Now looking into sex games/toys and we have had a few skype calls that were pretty heated.
I am wondering if I should make her swear on our boys health that it will never happen again so I can begin my healing or just let it go. She has gone from “hopefully it won’t happen again”, to “It will never, never happen again.
Just wanted to give you a big THANKS VERY MUCH, for bringing an option besides divorce to me. You may have saved my marriage.
Mike the Nurse

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