“This is NOT the Woman/Man I Married!”

Does this sound familiar?

It’s as if it happened overnight – and you never saw it coming. And now it’s up to you to “save your spouse” from the chaos that’s happening in his or her life…

If your spouse is overwhelmed by a midlife crisis, you’re not dealing with a “normal” person anymore.

Traditional marriage counseling won’t work. Books won’t work; even positive behavior-based courses won’t work. Don’t bother asking your spouse to work on the marriage with you…you’ll get a big “NO!”

So what can you do? Can it really be over after all these years?

Here’s What This Is About

Over the past 36 years, I’ve been developing a way to help men and women in your situation change the tense and negative environment between them and the person they thought they knew…The person who has suddenly become somebody else…your spouse!

My system will give you a way to…

  • Learn to attract your spouse like no one else can
  • Turn yourself into the most desirable man or woman in your spouse’s eyes
  • Get rid of the bad feelings between you and your spouse

I’ve been fine-tuning my Environment Changer system for the last 15 years and it’s been working extremely well for spouses who’ve said “This is NOT the man/woman I married!”

The idea is simple – change your environment, change your marriage.

I’m willing to Introduce you to the Idea of Being an Environment Changer
and Answer Any of Your Questions During a Free Private One Hour Call

Look – if you’re like most people faced with a spouse going through a midlife crisis, you’ve tried everything, but nothing works. Marriage counseling, books, seminars, courses, pastors – s/he just won’t listen and to make matters worse, you don’t know why!  I do!

 “Once size fits all” marriage programs won’t cut it in a situation like yours.

My Environment Changer system is entirely different. See what my students have to say in their own words. This is very specialized stuff – but it doesn’t work for everyone. 

This system IS for you if:

  • You want to avoid making the same mistakes in the future
  • You want to wipe out the old obstacles and connect to your spouse again physically and emotionally
  • You are ready to become the man or woman your spouse was first attracted to
  • You want to break the chain of family chaos and protect your kids from a life of it

This system is NOT for you if:

  • You refuse to move past the anger and resentment over past issues
  • You insist you are right and s/he is wrong.
  • You have “one foot out the door” and have nearly given up
  • You are unwilling to apply unconventional techniques and methods you’ve never heard before
  • You do not believe you can transform your marriage without your spouses’ participation
  • You are not ready to do something right now
If You Want To Speak With Larry As Soon As Possible...

Front of the line pass

If you absolutely want to speak with Larry as soon as possible, you can make a one-time “front of the line” investment of $75 and speak with Larry for a private, one hour consultation during the next available time slot in his calendar. (Usually within 24 to 48 hours of signing up)

To Speak with Larry Bilotta as Soon as Possible,
Reserve Your Front of the Line Pass Here

(Once your pass is confirmed, contact our office at 262-397-8766 to schedule your call.)

Also, if you are “on the fence” about enrolling in Larry’s Environment Changer program and after speaking with him decide the program is right for you, we will credit your investment of $75 back to you.

And now for more brutal honesty: This won’t happen overnight. It doesn’t matter if your spouse files for divorce tomorrow or 1 year from now. You can always get another marriage, another legal document…but you can’t get another person just like your spouse.

It’s up to you to create a new relationship out of the ashes of the old one.

Sure, most people will tell you “s/he’s too far gone” or “just let him/her go and move on with your life”. But if you’re ready to become an Environment Changer, then you’re someone who can’t see yourself with any other person than your spouse.  You want your family back and you’ll do what it takes.

So if you have the patience, the persistence and motivation to win your spouse back, I’ll show you how!

Here’s How This Works

So if you’re still with me, here’s what to do:

First, you’ll need to enter your REAL email address below.

Then you’ll be taken to an application where I ask you a few questions to make sure we’re a fit before I take up both of our time explaining everything.

Then your application will come to my office and one of two things will happen.

Possibility number one: I’ll decide my Environment Changer system is NOT a good match for you and kindly let you know.

Possibility number two: I’ll decide we MIGHT be a good match and someone from my office will schedule a call to see if we really are.

If that happens, you’ll get a VERY insightful 60 minute Strategy Session where you see exactly how this system works. Plus, I’ll help you understand what brought your marriage to the point you are at today, and what you can do about it.

I’m so serious about our time together that I’m going to get you ready for it by having you watch a 6 minute video I created to see how you ended up here. It’s titled “Why You Fight.” This video reveals a hidden “marriage killer” that can quickly catapult your marriage into divorce. (NOTE: Clicking the play button above will open the video in a new window.)

That’s all free.

I’ll review applications on a first come, first-served basis. I can take about 4 people this week.

To a less stressful and more fulfilling marriage,

Larry Bilotta

Larry Bilotta

Founder of the “Environment Changer Program

(Not everyone is ready for the Environment Changer program and during this call, Larry will help you understand what brought you to this point in your marriage, what it’s going to take to get back to ‘normal’ and just like the woman below did, you’ll feel more confident about whatever decision you choose.)

Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta

Recent email

Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta

“I want to say that my call yesterday with Larry was very enlightening! It also made me feel like I wasn’t “wrong” for the first time in I don’t know how long.

For the first time in a long time I did not feel lost and crazy but instead I felt grounded and calm inside, which I have missed very much. Larry is really amazing how he hits the nail on the head and I have many more questions for him which I did not have time to ask. It was definitely one of the most profound and insightful conversations I have had in a very long time.

Out of the years that I have been trying to save my relationship and spent money on many other programs it has been a waste and I believe that I have finally found real help.

That conversation with Larry must have hit home deep inside of me because my husband actually treated me differently yesterday evening – he reprimanded my 3 year old for hitting me and being defiant to me (he NEVER defends me like that), talked to me like I wasn’t the enemy, did not criticize me, and was actually bordering on being nice to me. I realized that I was acting differently too and did not feel like a floormat or hopeless.

I know it probably sounds pretty corny but just a brief encounter with the information he gave me made such an impact and that really amazes me, I did not expect that…I have grown kind of skeptical about help. Just wanted to share that for Larry – he is doing a really good helpful thing for people who have a very “different” kind of relationship that the “proven methods” don’t work on!

Larry is truly amazing and I hope other people like me out there find him and can finally get real help too!”

With much gratitude,

Jean H.

Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta

“I found the call useful and Larry opened my eyes to the source of many of our problems. Larry was able to provide insight into our thought patterns and how they are imbedded within us at a young age. I was amazed at how quickly he was able to provide an analysis.

I was even more impressed that he did not try to even sell his program.  In the end he believed that I would not be a good candidate.  I would recommend that others participate in his calls as well.  He may find that they too are not good candidates but the information learned from the call can still be very useful.

I mentioned another experts’ marriage program and he thought that it might be very beneficial.  I just wish others would offer the free consultation as well.

Larry comes off as being much more sincere and based upon our conversation, I would have no hesitation in recommending him.  I have already commented to several people that I was amazed there was no selling.  Many others would have tried to hard sell their program no matter what one’s circumstances.

Please send Larry my thanks.

– Joe Walters

Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta

WOW! That’s what we both have to say about Larry’s phone call. To be honest we have never felt so enlightened after a phone call in our lives.

Boy I have to say Larry definitely hit our nail right on the head, and he gave us both some great insight on ourselves and our marriage, major food for thought that is for sure. I have to say, that phone call was definitely a turning point for my husband in our marriage.

Since the phone call my husband said he feels like he understands a little more about what’s going on inside of him and with us, and well to say the least this last week has been a total 180. We both really believe this is our answer to being better people both married and individually. Larry is one awesome man that we both look forward to taking his course, as I know everything will work out with this in time.

– Kristen & Bryan McBroom

Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta

Dear Larry,

Thank you so much for helping me in making the most important decision of my life. By talking to you, I had an “Aha” moment. I realized that I was standing too close to the picture. I could see the details, but I missed the larger view.

You helped me to see the hidden causes of my indecisiveness: the wrestle between my moral values, my integrity, my pride, and my desire to keep the “chaotic normal” intact at any coast. I was resisting the change basing my decisions on my fears: the lack of economic security and support system in a foreign, uncharted territory and also on my desire to fight an evil with kindness.

Thank you again for your kindness and for your advice!



Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta


Thank you for the time you spent talking with me. You concisely explained what I knew by “intuition” about my marriage situation. It’s as though you knew my wife personally without ever meeting her.  Your insight about Chaos Kids was profound and both a help and a kind of relief for me.

Thanks again,


Feedback We Received After a Private call with Larry Bilotta

“Thanks Larry so much for the time you spent with Tom and me last night.  We appreciated the encouragement and words of wisdom.  You made Tom realize that it’s ok to go against what he’s programmed to do from his parents. It is important to me & our marriage to put work on the back burner and make time for what is ultimately most important to both of us (each other).  “It’s five o’clock somewhere” is the perfect slogan we both need to get a healthy balance.

I really did appreciate your input last night.  It was a last resort for me.  I have looked a long time for something that had answers to our problems. Thanks again for all your help and information on your website.  Although I am still not fulfilled it has helped relieve some anger and frustration.”


– Lisa Dunham