Together, Let’s End the Cycle of Family Chaos

  • While 50% of US marriages fail, this only applies to first marriages. Second and third marriages fail at a far higher rate. *Forbes
  • The risk of divorce is 50% higher when one spouse comes from a divorced home and 200% higher when BOTH partners do. *Understanding the Divorce Cycle
  • Children of divorce are at increased risk of mental health disorders such as anxiety and depression, relationship difficulties, and unwanted health outcomes in adulthood. *Source

Lingering feelings of abandonment, abuse and neglect plague children of divorce long into adulthood. But there is another way…

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It only takes ONE person to heal a marriage

Heal Your Marriage, By Healing Yourself

For over 20 years, Larry has helped thousands around the world become the best version of themselves in spite of difficult obstacles like midlife crisis, infidelity, or an impending divorce.  Here are just a few. Will you be our next success story?

These stories are from real people who saved their marriage or overcame challenges in their marriage through the Environment Changer course. Some enroll for self-improvement rather than marital reasons.

After only 2 days of applying some of your course, my wife changed her mind and agreed to counseling.

For the first time in months, she has an answer instead of “I don’t know” when I ask her a question. Your course is an invaluable wealth of information. Trust me, I have looked at them all.

I never would have believed it, I had all but given up, but one positive spouse can turn things around. Once again, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Steve Hill from Edwards, Colorado

Dave was borderline suicidal. Today he is happily married to his wife who almost left him and now wants to grow old with him.

After seeking help from Larry Bilotta, Kel and his wife Sam are remarried.

So much self help stuff seems to be created for women. Your Environment Changer course is a great fit for men. It was simple, easy to understand and very practical.

I can actually apply it without forcing my wife to do anything. Your methods that I’ve adapted make me feel far more in control of where our marriage is going without me trying to control her. So glad I found your course Larry.  The stress relief is well worth it.

Winston Williams from Milwaukee, Wisconsin

My wife is enjoying confiding in me more and more. She told me that she is telling me things now that she never would have months ago.

The other day she even gave a hint that she will move back home. I am so thankful for finding you and this incredible group of guys.

So many good things are happening in so many ways, it’s just downright ridiculous.

Jon Ostrander from Cincinnati, Ohio

Josh and his wife are now getting back together again as a married couple.

Carrie sees her husband becoming the kind of spouse she knew he could be – and he has not changed one bit.

Your course is so totally in keeping with what I already believe, that I cannot change anyone, but everyone is influenced by the emotional condition I’m in.

Through your course, you’ve given me a specific way to do that and now I’m able to live without all that anxiety, intensity and urgency that has stressed out me, my wife and our children for so long.

Dan Dinucci from Millford, Massachusetts

Alice's husband is now sleeping in the same bedroom and wearing his wedding ring again.

After a relatively short period of time, Alya turned her life around, her husband wants to be around her, and the divorce process has stopped.

Your course literally made it possible for me to change the course of my life as a husband, as a man, a dad and even my career has taken a more confident turn.

What you teach I’ve not seen taught anywhere. For a guy like me with a short attention span, it needed to be simple, direct and something I could actually do, not just a bunch of theory. Your course is all that and so much more. I think every husband, struggling marriage or not, should take your course.

Matt Gabhart from Wilmore, Kentucky

Elizabeth finally feels free from her negative thoughts and feelings.

Since enrolling in the EC program, Anne-Kirsten is calmer, her life is rich with possibilities, her husband softened and is slowly coming back.

You hit the nail on the head and woke me up to how blind I’ve been about what my wife has needed from me.

I feel her coming back to me slowly, but it is happening.

I have far more control of my emotions than I ever have in my whole life because of your program. I’ve learned a lot more from you but these are the big things.

Scott Morin from Baton Rouge, Louisiana

After suffering with anxiety for 17 years, within 1 week, John discovered the cause of all of the pain and chaos in his life.

The Environment Changer program helped Bill in ways he never could have imagined.

Marrying into a blended family was a shocking surprise for me. I had no idea what stress I was in for because I didn’t understand all that I must face. I should have found your Environment Changer Course long before I needed it.

Now that I understand how to eliminate my negative feelings in spite of circumstances in my tough situation, I can see that my wife is affected by the way I feel. That’s something every man should know. If guys don’t take your course, they will simply create the life their fathers created in their marriages. See Larry, I learned a lot in your course!

Keith Humphry from Spokane, Washington

After Brenda's husband hit his breaking point, she enrolled in the program Today she is calm, happy and her marriage is filled with love and happiness.

After Bob's wife moved 2500 miles away with another man, he attracted her back and she is leaving the other man to come home.

I have received good help from my counselor tracking down childhood issues, but the Environment Changer course is direct and less complicated.  It’s as if good counselors SORT OF have answers, but they don’t know ALL of it.

When I asked our marriage counselor for a strategy, he sadly said, “Until your husband starts talking and revealing truth to someone, there isn’t anything for you to do.”

Over the past year, I have read 25 books, done 7 online courses, seen one counselor, one marriage counselor, and one wise pastor. 

From them, I have been given pieces of what I have gotten out of this course — but this course has put the puzzle pieces together into something that makes sense to me.

Elizabeth from St. Louis, Missouri

Jennifer turned her life around through the Environment Changer program.

After 6 months, Kevin stopped his divorce and is planning vacation as a family.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving me the tools to save my husband, turn my son around, and live a more loving, giving life.  Seeing the change in them is amazing.  I knew my husband needed me deep in my soul when he left the first time.

I used to be worried about the detachment I was starting to feel, like I didn’t care or “settling” for a man that would be closed off and unfaithful.

I now realize it’s me finally letting go of all that “stuff” and seeing him for the man he truly is…a man whose internal struggle is so great.  I will save him thanks to you.  His eyes sparkle more, he’s giving me compliments again and was creative in choosing a Christmas gift for me this year…first time in a long time.

Tina Sandovai from Cleveland, Ohio

David's wife of 15 years filed for divorce. Today, David's marriage is healing and he has a new sense of calm in his life.

Some students enter the EC program for self improvement reasons, rather than marriage restoration. Jill experienced dramatic life changing experiences.

I’m amazed with everything you’ve created. From the Flag page, to all your articles on the internet, to the 2 greatest needs of men and women, and the secret path to divorce. The Environment Changer course is the path to a happy life for a man, and then a happy marriage. I hope one day to join you because we need more men doing the right thing for themselves and their wives.

Rich Persia from Pittsburg, Pennsylvania

Cliff turned his life around through the Environment Changer course.

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